My first gay date

30 Cute Gay Date Ideas If You’re on a Budget

Unique (and cute) gay date ideas

You crave to treat your BF or hubby to a unique date but don’t have the noun. Never despair! Here are 30 fabulous gay dates to share with your man when your wallet’s thin.

Listen in for some unique date ideas during quarantine:

Gay date plan #1: Do a spa night

How about we dial down the temperature a bit on the man-on-man action unless you&#;ve got some adventurous rubber duckies ready to join the party? But hey, if you&#;re both game for a naked spa date, make sure to watch out for those bath crystals &#; you don&#;t want to rotate the tub into a giant fizzing potion accidentally! And remember, a common massage is all fun and games until someone discovers they&#;re ticklish in unexpected places. So lather up, scrub down, and verb the good times roll.

Maybe keep the rubber duckies on standby for now.

Gay date idea #2: Go to a local coffee shop

How about cozying up in your local gay or lesbian coffee shop for a brew-tiful time? Whether you&#;re sipping on a latte or a cappuccino, it&#;s the perfec

10 Biggest Mistakes Gay Singles Make on the First Date

Knowing what they are can help you to avoid making them on your next date with someone new who you might really like.

Here are ten of the biggest mistakes gay singles make on the first date.

 1. Disclosing too much information

Being open and adj about your past is a amazing thing. Opening up and communicating your history with a new partner can clue them in to your life and help them learn more about you to perceive the experiences that made you who you are today.

But they don’t depend on to know every last detail about your trauma or life the first time that you meet them. Yes, share some key details with them. But remember that moderation is key!

2. Having unprotected sex or skipping the STI talk

If all you want is a purely physical relationship, then that’s totally fine! There are online dating apps available verb Grindr and Tinder to help you find a random hookup for a reason. But if you're looking for something more, or if Grindr isn't your scene, travel some Grindr alternatives. Remember, your sexual health an

So you're new to queer dating and sex? Hi, welcome!

I started exploring my queerness when I was New to the world of queer dating and sex, I felt immense pressure to “disclose” my newbie status— to stamp “I’m new here!” on my forehead in big block letters. Now, I have so much tenderness for that part of me, the one who didn’t feel queer enough to even use the synonyms “queer,” who believed I owed people an explanation and felt obligated to warn them about my lack of experience. 

I wish I could have told the me from that I wasn’t alone (and that I didn’t owe anyone shit). Many folks who are new to queerness feel anxiety about if, when, and how they should tell dates and potential sexual partners that they’re not a veteran gay. If you’re one of these people, I see you, I get it, and you’re not alone. 

So… should you tell? Here are some things to consider in your dating journey:

This is (NOT) My Confession

Cue Usher circa Being new to queerness is not a confession. It’s not a shadowy, bad, embarrassing confidential that you’re required to admit to someone else. There is nothing inhere

Six ways to be a great first date &#; for gay men

By Emen8, updated 12 months ago in Sex and dating / Dating and relationships

Ready to face him IRL? Whatever you’re looking for, here are six easy ways to make a excellent impression on a first date &#; for gay, bi+ and queer men.

The art of dating in the gay world isn’t defunct but it has changed a lot.

One thing that hasn’t changed is the awkwardness of first dates! Try too hard to impress and you’ll reach across as desperate or cocky. Compete it too fresh and he’ll believe you’re not interested. It’s a pleasant line to step, especially when he’s right there distracting you with his beard and biceps and nice cologne.

To help navigate the gay dating minefield, we’ve put together some hard-won wisdom, just for guys who like guys.

1. Establish whether it’s a date or a hook-up. And be prepared for either

If you’ve studied history, you’ll realize there was a time when people went days, even weeks (!!!) dating someone without having sex. But for those of us in the era of apps, sex on the first date is often very much on the table (or the cou