Straight to gay first time
In a sexual context, bottoming is the act of taking a dick (or a dick-shaped object) in your ass. When it comes to gay and bi men, a lot of people seem kind of obsessed with operational out who&#;s a top/giver and who&#;s a bottom/receiver, but in reality many MSM (men who have sex with men) do both and some undertake neither. In , it&#;s painfully heteronormative to presume that sexual intercourse has to involve a hole being filled by something cock-shaped.
On one level, bottoming is really no big deal – if you enjoy riding dick, leave ahead and go it. But on another, butt-fucking is still cloaked in myth and stigma. “There&#;s an association that those who bottom are feminine and those who top are masculine,” says Ian Howley, CEO of the health and wellbeing charity LGBT HERO. “And we all know where that stigma comes from: Hello, toxic masculinity.”
Happily, Howley says this reductive presumption is finally dying out as we all become more open-minded. “You now observe lots of &#;masculine&#; men who relish bottoming, including straight men who finally found out just how much pleasure they can ge
Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way
To begin, I&#;d enjoy to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to travel their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s important to understand that you can try fresh things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who yearn to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We argue trans men morehere, andhere’s some help and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be straightforward from the get-go that you&#;re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you&#;re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you&#;ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr,&n
"I went on a trip to a tropical country. I found a little, secluded, resort-type place with a bar while exploring the area. I spent the entire noun there while the male, early 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one point, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go study by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't have to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me"
"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came back with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could aim , and at this point I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was do
Do you remember your first time? Your first experience with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?
It's that first moment of total pleasure when everything else disappears, and those weird “feelings” suddenly make complete sense. Suddenly, everything falls into place: you're not a freak of nature or “different”, simply experiencing the simple joys that you were born to enjoy.
For most gay guys, our first gay experience is usually a moment of revelation and clarity that eventually leads to our possess acceptance and the urge to announce the world. For others, it's a complete disaster that we prefer to forget… although one thing's for sure, you will never truly forget it!
In this post, we asked a rare of our friends from around the world to give their first gay experience with us, whether it was a first-time gay k&#;ss, their first gay love story, or something a bit more spicy(!)… and we've arrange it all out right here. You'll also want to check out our own love story of how we first met each other.
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