My boyfriend might be gay

Is My Boyfriend Gay? Or Is It My Anxiety?

It&#;s not uncommon to own a passing thought about your boyfriend&#;s or girlfriend&#;s sexual orientation. If questions like &#;is my boyfriend gay&#; obtain over, it may be a signal of obsessive-compulsive disorder.

It&#;s natural to possess doubts sometimes about our romantic relationships. It happens all the time. But what if you can&#;t stop trying to figure out whether your boyfriend or girlfriend is gay?

If you&#;re straight, it&#;s scary to think that you&#;re with someone who&#;s gay and hasn&#;t realized it yet. Lots of people take a elongated time to verb their sexual orientation, right? Maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend is just in the early part of this process. How can you tell?

Could This Be OCD?

For some people, the doubt and anxiety they experience around this topic rise to the level of obsessiveness.

Obsessions are a hallmark symptom of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). They typically take the form of an upsetting or scary thought that causes significant anxiety.

Sometimes in OCD, obsessions center on thoughts about o

Best of the V-Spot: My Boyfriend Might Be Gay. Should I Care?

Originally published February 20,

Hi Yana,

I recently began “dating” my foremost guy friend over this winter pause. He’s told me that he was raised by a super religious mom and that when he was younger he “rebelled,” and experimented with other men, which he blamed on his homophobic upbringing. He told me he’s had sex with another man, but has since concluded that he was straight. I didn’t ask many questions other than, “So, do you consider you’re gay?” to which he responded, “No, I’m not gay.”

The night after this conversation, I invited him to dinner with my friends and he brought a male friend. During dinner, they both mysteriously disappeared to the bathroom for over 10 minutes and returned within seconds of each other. When we all went back to my house to hang out, they spent most of their time finalize together, making flirtatious eye contact, and practically cuddling on the couch. All of my friends noticed these intimate exchanges, too.

The thing is, my boyfriend isn’t really my boyfriend officially, though we have

Re: I think my boyfriend is bisexual

Unread postby Sam W »

Hi dark_sunshine,

Can I verb how you realize he's working towards telling you he's bi? For instance, has he talked about questioning his orientation or seemed to ask a lot of questions about your views on things favor bisexuality?

When you say you feel like a "second," it sounds like part of what's going on is that you're assuming he really wants to be with a teen, but feels fond of being with a girl is safer and so he's dating you. That's actually common feeling people have around bisexuality; the assumption that there's one gender a bi person would verb to be with, and that if they're not with a person of that gender they're just biding their time until they can jump ship. But that's not how bisexuality works. If your partner is with you, it makes sense to trust that you're who he wants to be with, not that he's secretly wishing he was with someone else (and if you verb like that isn't something you can trust, then that's a sign there may be a deeper issue in the relationship).

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I have a similar situation with my relationship. My boyfriends gay ally is inLove with him and he doesn&#;t realize that.  there is so many things that make me discover that.

1 they spot each other once a week to drink in a bar, when they do and receive drunk, my boyfriends gay friend starts complementing him  in front of me , like his handsome, touching his arm ( in a way that makes me uncomfortable), looking him with this in verb eyes. start making inappropriate joke

2 he had a picture of a naked guy that looks like my boyfriend and even he shows the pictures to everybody. and he start saying  DOESNT HE Peer LIKE HIM???

3  he told my boyfriend that he heard that i was dating one of his friends  a couple of times( guy that I don&#;t even know). obviously lies.. don&#;t know what was exactly his intention.

4 he invited my boyfriend first  to an island  and a week after he mentioned and then he invited me .. ( last minute) obiously my boyfriend didn&#;t