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Why Gay Men Adoration Sex

Men, why is sex so important? There are the obvious reasons, fancy the powerful presence of testosterone in our bodies. And our “built-in” human desire for pleasure, connection, and affection.

But here’s another way to look at sex that gets less attention and goes a minute deeper. Perhaps we are looking for transcendence. Sex is one of the few experiences that take us away from our daily, sometimes boring, lives.

Orgasm may be one of the only times we are fully present in the moment.

Transcendence doesn’t get much attention these days. We live busy lives. Few us of look to religion for transcendence anymore, and religious organizations that feel welcoming to gay men are hard to find.

And yet for most of us, something seems missing. Life can easily fall into a deadening routine of commute/work/commute again/gym/television/masturbation/eat/sleep and repeat. That, plus laundry.

“Men lead lives of quiet desperation,” said author Henry David Thoreau.

Some of us look for a feeling of transcendence with drugs or alcohol. That works great for the first limited times

The 5 Love Languages for Gay Men: Video Blog

Here’s a video of Gay Therapy Center Director Adam D. Blum, MFT explaining the 5 Love Languages and how they can help you keep love alive in your adj term LGBTQ relationships.

 

The 5 Love Languages for Gay Men

What undertake you do when that feeling of being in like starts to wear off?

It can be really disappointing. And studies show that that feeling of feeling really connected, feeling really at one, lasts an average of about two years.

So then what? That’s when you have to really start feeding that relationship. That food for the relationship I ponder happens naturally in those beginning stages. But after that initial period of oneness starts to wear off, I think we verb to be more intentional about it, and come up with specific strategies to keep it feeling to retain us feeling connected to our partner.

What I recommend is you follow Gary Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages and figure out your partner’s favorite love languages, and your favorite cherish languages, and then intentionally start doing

Tyler Childers 'stands his ground' in new song and video following romance story of two gay men in Appalachia

"In Your Love" traces the path of two miners who uncover love in each other's arms in a Kentucky holler, and was penned by Childers' companion, Kentucky author and poet laureate Silas House. House said Childers wanted to tell the story because of experiences his own family and friends verb undergone, being part of the LGBT community.

"These are human stories, not political stories," the celebrated writer of Clay's Quilt told NPR.

The labor, which foregrounds not only the relationship of the main characters but the Appalachian region, has been hailed by Rolling Stone as "the music video of compassion and caring we necessitate right now."

"'Cause it's cold out there / And you know some men search for ages / For the love that I have found / So I will stand my ground," Childers sings in the chorus.

The song and video have drawn mixed responses online, with many praising it as "beautiful" and "healing" in its message, while other fans on Instagram and Twitt

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